Day Game Denial

I was sitting outside today in the sun, seeing a few single girls here and there doing likewise and I caught myself thinking “I wish I could go up talk to them”. Then I thought…. Whoa! WTF? I’m supposed to be a wannabe PUA here. What am I doing? I mulled this over and realised that I’ve been in denial about day game. I did the approaches on the Bootcamp and then I did a few little bits here and there, then started to do Gallery-game but what I’ve essentially done is chickened out and bypassed the problem of being unable to cold-approach a girl on the street. I’ve weaseled out.
Thinking more about this skill I realise it’s as important, if not more important than bar-game. This is game I can practice anywhere, for free. For free! Just go out, walk around and talk to people. And this exercise will do me untold good. Reading secret_pua it’s easy to see how just being positive, adding value and talking to strangers can potentially be life-changing.
I realise I still have AA regarding day game. I also realise I am lacking technical chops: I honestly am uncertain how to get talking to people just out on their lunchbreak, sitting on the grass, etc, without making a fool of myself (I’ll have to see these people again and again afterwards). I want this skill so bad. I look around me and see women EVERYWHERE. I could be getting an extra 50 approaches a week in here! I have SO been in denial.
Time to change.
1) Use my last one-to-one with Johnny/Suave for day game training
2) Get a wing(s)
3) Set a timetable and goals. I am thinking on every free weekend do a good session on each day i.e. two day game per week PLUS…
4) Start talking to people on the street more, asking fake-directions, the time, etc
5) Move towards a lifestyle of constant interaction with joe-public
I feel sickened that this amazing tool has just been sitting there, I’ve been fastiduously reading Krauser’s blog yet been totally in denial. AGGGH!!

One response to “Day Game Denial”

  1. Yes yes yes – do it! So much more rewarding than going to bars and competing with other blokes for the girls’ attention.

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