March 2014

  • Lessons from the pig farm

    My quality threshold took a dive when I was in Singapore. The city-state is virtually un-daygameable so I was left with the very poor second choices of nightgame and online game. The first I toyed with and found the usual high-investment waste of time, the second full of the usual timewasters and morons. I ended… Continue reading

  • Elasticity

    I always struggled with escalation. It wasn’t even funny the number of girls I got on dates, just talked all evening to and then went home sad because “it hadn’t happened”. Then I discovered that it doesn’t “just happen” and you actually have to make it happen, you have to escalate. This was news to… Continue reading

  • Re-styling

    Keen eyed readers will notice I’ve pimped up the styling of the blog. I felt it was time for a change. I like to think the new style is humble and placid and in keeping with the tone of my writing. I’m moving servers as well so please excuse any technical hitches. If your comment… Continue reading

  • Pop Quiz

    You’ve flown to Jakarta for a four day break. You have three evenings: Thursday, Friday and Saturday. You’re tired on your first night but force yourself to go out anyway. The first bar you’re in you get chatting to a girl who seems to not be a whore. A low 7. She’s 29 but looks… Continue reading

  • “Man 2.0” review

    This is an important book but a weird book. There’s a lot of hype around it… is it just another fitness book? Is it just another paleo book? Is it a manosphere book? Certainly on the latter I was skeptical given it’s on the New York Times bestseller and can be found in any bookshop.… Continue reading

  • Solo club game!

    Singapore has been fairly low key. I’ve banged four birds but not done a huge amount of work or been out a lot. I should say ‘lot’ because I guess I’ve had ten or so dates so far but in terms of gamey trips abroad this is nothing. Singapore just isn’t that good for game;… Continue reading

  • Step by Step: The American Tourist (part Two)

    Continuing from Part One… We leave and walk up the road. I again force her to walk behind me but of course with a smirk and a half-jokey manner. Then I then offer her my arm. She links it. Compliance test passed. I now know exactly where I am in the Pick Up. I have… Continue reading

  • Step by Step: The American Tourist

    It was the height of summer. London was thronged with tourists and me and Nick had whiled away a few pleasant hours on a Sunday sauntering through the parks and tourists sights, chatting to a number of particularly attractive younger ladies. The day was drawing to a close and we were in Trafalgar Square. I… Continue reading