Readers, a follow up to DrunkenBaker’s first guest post:
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POST by DrunkenBaker
Well, it was inevitable really, and totally within the boundaries of what has been written about how Game works.
This woman was wild during the evening we spent together – practically forcing me to have have sex when I would have been content with just making out. She sent me a few texts after our evening: did you get to work alright, I have a hangover… that kind of thing. After I got home from work thought I’d give her a phonecall so that she didn’t think she had been used but she didn’t answer.
Fast forward to yesterday evening and I suddenly get a text out of the blue saying how “freaked out” she is because she normally doesn’t behave in the way she did, but is equally freaked out and “has a moral dilemma” about not replying to me because she doesn’t want to appear rude. She then goes on to say how uncomfortable she feels with the whole situation that she has “brought upon herself” and doesn’t feel she can meet me again.
Post-match analysis: Her reaction shows that it was definitely game that got her into a SNL as it raised her emotion and allowed her to behave outside her self-imposed accepted norm. However, this leads to freaking out as they become afraid of where their emotions lead them and they have to distance themselves so that it doesn’t happen again. As Bhoddi said in his text to me: “They’re so pathetic they deserve to be gamed.”
Onto the next one then!
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[Bhodisatta says..] Wow. I’ve reframed this into ‘god your game must have been tight’ to force a girl out of her norm like that. Mystery would probably say not enough Comfort was built to ensure post-sex continuation, and I think he’d probably be right. Women are strange creatures… you execute the incredibly, unbelievably difficult task of getting one to SNL and then what happens…. they haven’t felt enough comfort so they feel slutty and a loss of power so they respond by cutting it dead. She is cutting off her nose to spite her face. She can’t cope with what she did so how does she respond? Deep thought and analysis? Self acceptance? Deciding that the double-standard is bollocks and she is a modern, liberated woman and can do what she wants? Nope. Cut the guy dead. No guy: no problem. Pathetic. To me anyone that gets to 29 (the SNL’s age) and acts like this is pretty sad really, like a child. Grow the F up. They deserve to be gamed.
Any reader perspectives on the outcome would be appreciated as well.
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